Approach and Tools

My work is relational, trauma informed, and grounded in over 20 years of experience supporting thoughtful adults through complexity, transition, and stress. I do not follow a single model. I draw from a range of approaches, always in service of what actually supports you.

Core principles

Relational first: Change happens through being met, not managed. Relationship is the foundation of this work.

Nervous system aware: We work at a pace that supports safety, clarity, and capacity rather than overwhelm or performance.

Grounding before insight: Understanding follows regulation. We stabilise first so insight and choice can emerge naturally.

Context matters: Your history, culture, relationships, and current pressures all matter. Nothing is done in isolation.

Tools and approaches I may draw from

Depending on what supports you, I may draw from:

Tools are always used lightly and in service of relationship, context, and what actually helps you think and function more clearly.

If you’re looking for more specific detail, I’ve popped a list of my professional credentials, qualifications and background on my About page.

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Relational, trauma informed coaching for thoughtful adults who are tired of doing it alone.
Based in Aotearoa New Zealand. Working internationally via 1:1 online sessions.
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